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10 Tips To Make A GUY LIKE YOU

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Attraction, according to TheThings, comes down to habits you can actually practice.

TheThings Celebrity built its early catalog on quick-hit dating and lifestyle listicles, and “10 Tips To Make A GUY LIKE YOU” is a prime example of the format: ten concrete behavioral shifts, no fluff, delivered in rapid succession. The video treats attraction less like magic and more like a set of habits — confidence, curiosity, independence — that a viewer can put into practice starting that day. It’s the kind of advice piece that trades soundbites for substance, breaking a vague goal into a checklist.

• The guide opens with self-confidence as the baseline trait, framing comfort in one’s own skin as something that reduces the need for outside validation.
• It repeatedly ties genuine curiosity about a guy’s hobbies and daily life to making him feel “interesting and important.”
• The video closes on independence, arguing that maintaining friendships, goals, and interests outside the relationship is more attractive than constant availability.

The Confidence-First Approach

The video’s first and arguably most emphasized point is confidence. Rather than framing it as a personality trait some people simply have, the guide presents it as a mindset — being comfortable in your own skin so you’re not chasing external validation. That framing sets up everything that follows: humor, listening, independence, all read as extensions of a woman who already feels good about herself rather than performing for approval.

Humor gets the same treatment. The advice isn’t “be funny” in the abstract; it’s about not taking yourself too seriously and being able to “roll with the punches,” which the video argues signals emotional resilience more than comedic timing.

Curiosity Over Performance

Where a lot of dating content leans on superficial tactics — what to wear, how to text back, when to laugh at a joke — this list spends real time on genuine interest. The video’s logic is straightforward: guys want to feel like their hobbies and their day-to-day matter to someone, so asking follow-up questions and actually listening does more work than any rehearsed line.

Most guys want to feel like they are interesting and important, so showing genuine interest in his life and his hobbies can go a long way towards making him like you.

That listening point pairs directly with authenticity. The video is blunt that trying to be someone you’re not to impress a guy tends to backfire — guys, it argues, notice when a persona is forced, and it undercuts trust before it has a chance to build.

Independence As The Closing Argument

The back half of the list pivots to self-sufficiency: staying positive, proving you’re trustworthy, taking care of yourself physically, and — repeated twice, once mid-list and again as the final point — keeping a full life outside the relationship. The video treats desperation and over-availability as the fastest way to kill attraction, positioning independence as the opposite instinct: friends, goals, and interests that exist whether or not he’s around.

It’s a theme that shows up constantly in celebrity relationship coverage too — see the ongoing discussion around Megan Fox’s relationship history or the read on Jason Momoa’s relationship with Zoe Kravitz, where independence and maintaining a separate identity get cited as recurring factors in how those pairings were perceived. The video’s advice isn’t tabloid-driven, but the underlying principle — don’t disappear into someone else’s orbit — tracks with what gets reported about real couples constantly.

The list wraps on that same note it opened with: confidence and authenticity aren’t separate tips, they’re the frame the other eight sit inside. Ten points, no filler, and a closing line that could double as the video’s thesis — being yourself, staying interested, and not chasing validation is the whole game.